BRINGING OUR BELONGING
We question our belonging.
But what if our perceived lack of belonging is a mirror our own self-rejection creates?
You belong everywhere you choose to bring yourself fully.
I wanted to belong to groups that didn't appear to want me, becoming a detective finding "evidence" of rejection in subtle glances, exchanged whispers, often sitting alone amongst others.
The truth?
It was all a performance of my own making. My belief that I didn't belong was the invisible director, casting everyone as rejectors.
We are magnificent manifestors.
What we believe, we create validation for, manifesting it in our outer experience.
You know those grumpy days when traffic is a mess, you're in the longest line, and everyone's rude?
The world reflects your frequency.
The opposite is also true. When we embody our highest selves, colors seem brighter.
Everyone smiles.
Everything falls into place.
Those groups didn't reject me.
I rejected myself first, and the world mirrored my frequency.
All of the work I had done taught me that I wasn't uniquely broken -
but sovereignty taught me I was never broken at all.
The moment I stopped waiting for permission and began bringing my belonging to every encounter - I experienced the evidence.
The external world finally said, "Welcome."
I am the woman who now carries her own home,
her own center,
her Sovereignty wherever her feet land.
It isn't about doing more work on yourself. It's about remembering the woman underneath the doing.
The one who has been waiting to exhale.
Sovereignty is the next spiral - where recovery ripens into embodied wholeness.
