Own Your Power. End the Pattern.
What if the hardest thing you've ever done wasn't meant to break you…
but to break you open?
You look at your children and see their struggles.
And somewhere in your chest, the weight sets in:
I was not the mother they deserved.
But what if that story is the cage?
I had no capacity to be a mother.
My mother had no capacity either.
We were both so deep in our own survival that nurturing was a language neither of us could speak.
We moved through motherhood like women underwater,
reaching but never quite grasping the surface.
For years, I carried that like a stone.
I should have been better.
I should have done more.
Until I understood:
their path is theirs.
On a soul level, they chose me for the exact lessons they needed to evolve.
Just as I chose my mother for mine.
Blame is a closed circuit.
It keeps everyone locked in the pattern.
But when I stopped blaming her and started taking sovereign responsibility for my own healing, everything shifted.
The energy changed.
My daughter felt it.
My mother felt it.
The world felt it.
Because when one woman breaks the cycle, the ripple is infinite.
Your children didn't need perfection.
They needed a mother brave enough to face herself.
To stop the loop.
To choose evolution over blame.
You cannot heal their path.
But you can walk yours with such fierce presence that they remember:
This is what it looks like to return to yourself.
That is legacy. That is love. That is the medicine.
